Who the F is she talking about?….?

BK- The bf for 4 years….lived together for 3…broke up before Thanksgiving 2008 and pretty much the reason for this blog….We have reconnected and have been back together since December 2009

This is us in 2005 – right after we started dating….like a one week after our first dateThis is us now…

BFF – My best friend since 7th grade.  I lost her in June 2009 to cancer.  I miss her each and everyday and wish she was here to give me advice, do lunch and all the best friend things.  We shared a sisterly bond more than a friendship bond.  She was part of my family and I was part of hers. You will read a lot about her on here as well. She continues to be an integral part of my life. I think about her constantly; remember her advice in every situation; and wish everyday she was here with me.

Here’s a pic of BFF and me on her wedding day:

CAB – the absolute best friend a girl could ask for.  We were roomies junior year when I subleased K10′s room.  We didn’t get along  very well but lived together for 1.5 years.  We reconnected our senior year when I started dating CAB’s now husbands friend in the Army.  We’ve been inseparable ever since and I wouldn’t trade her for the world.  She also is addicted to tv (like me and K10), I can tell her anything and I know she will give me her honest opinion– whether I agree or not. She genuinely has my best interest at heart and I love her more like a sister than a friend.  She is also my partner in crime in triathlons and has lost 40 pounds to date since we started this crazy journey.  I am so proud of her and am so thankful God put her in my life.

CAB and me in LA on our weekend get away…you can read about it HERE

K10 -An integral part of my daily life.  The friend you can tell anything to, be completely stupid around, and gets my addiction to stupid tv (we watch all the same shows).  We met our sophomore year in college through one of my h.s. friends.  She was roommates with CAB .  Over margaritas and mexican food we decided that I would go back to school, sublease her apt and be roomies with CAB, she would drop out and move back home to work full time.  Stayed in touch throughout school but it wasn’t until a few years later we developed the friendship we have today. Her and her husband provide me the kick in the ass I need in times, well, when I need a kick in the ass.  I’m so thankful for K10 and don’t know what I would do without her.

GW2k10 in NOLA

SBJ – one of my oldest and bestest friends… she lives Tulsa…. visits occasionally and normally provides pretty good stinking advice.  She loves me and supports me.  We went through the loss of our mutual BFF in June of 2009, who I mentioned in the About Me Section.  Wet met in 8th grade…BFF, SBJ and me were inseparable until we all went to college.  I love her dearly and truly have been through the worst parts of my life with her.

NEWBIE – one of “my girls” from college. (there are seven of us total) Newbie was the youngest one of the group and by a drunk guy on the quad was deemed Newbie…it stuck and haven’t called her anything different for ten years now.  Literally the conversation went like this… “I know you, I know you, I know you, You’re a Newbie” … and there was the beginning of never using her birth name again.  Newbie was famous for “Newbie dares” you can get this girl to do pretty much anything with a couple Miller Lights and a Mickey D’s cheeseburger!  She is precious and very near and dear to me.  She has been there through so much with me and I hate she lives six hours away. Again, more like a sister than a friend….I’m lucky to be able to call her my friend!

KK – another h.s/college friend.  We went to high school together but weren’t really “friends” until college.  She lives like literally down the street from me and we tend to be mischievous together.  She is also more like family and I just don’t know what I would do without her.

Yorkie - Another friend from high school.  We lost touch immediately after high school and did not reconnect until BFF passed away.  She was/is my silver lining in an awful situation.

PSIL - Pseudo Sis In Law – Superiorex’s Sister In Law (married to his second oldest brother)… and one of my dearest friends…

BFFHusband – BFF’s Husband… as you can imagine from the name.  He is still a great friend, even though I don’t see him as often as I used to.  I pray for him each day.

Roomie – My last roommate and wonderful friend.  We met working together at a dive bar in College and have stayed very close since then.  He is the pepper to my salt, the peanut butter to my jelly…

Sissy – my middle sister – mom to Niece1 and Nephew -

Sis - my oldest sister – mom to Niece2 (only deemed 2 because she is the youngest)

Niece1 – oldest niece and should be my child… I love her like my own. She was born when I was 19 and we have a crazy bond. I have a feeling I will be bailing her out of trouble when she hits the teenage years

Niece2 - youngest niece and Oh-S0-Precious baby girl.  She is a doll and always makes me smile.  She loves on me and cuddles with me and has the best demeanor.

Nephew – my hell raising, all boy, nephew.  He is in to everything dirty, cars, trucks, trains and sports. 100% boy and I love every little piece of him.

JJ- Works with Superiorex(HIM) and HER(CUNT)…. mutual friend..but seriously like BFF with HER…. similar to the relationship I have with ROOMIE.  Best friend of the opposite sex…. JJ has been known to be the lipslut of the group – he’s tall, dark, and handsome and quite the charmer…which is why we love him.  He’s a great guy and love him dearly!

BRANCH- Branch and I met in h.s. and became good friends our senior year.  We dated best friends for three years…neither of which worked out.   We kind of went in and out of each others lives for a few years when I moved away to college but remained friends none the less.  She is going through a similar breakup between her and her exbf that I went through with Superiorex.

GM – my token gay friend.  We watch the grammy’s, the globe’s, the oscars, etc together and he appreciates my love of men. (probably bc he loves them too).  He ALWAYS makes me laugh, makes me feel comfortable in my own skin, and is notably known for all of his deliciously gorgeous straight man friends.

The Compound: My mom’s house.  I grew up here from basically the time I was born until I moved out at 23.  My mom has a large plot of land in what now is a full “big city suburb”.  Growing up the town was little and everyone was in everybody else’s business.  We call it the compound b/c Sissy, her husband, her two kids all live there (in my mom’s house).  Next door to Mom’s lives my maternal grandfather, Pappy.  The best, grandpa EVER!

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